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**Genital Massage Ritual Day ** with Jem Ayres

A Day of Embodied Touch.

HumanKind Studio, Brighton

**Saturday 18th April 2026, **

1.30-10.00pm

Join Jem Ayres, Orgasmic Embodiment Coach devoting a day to learning how to give and receive genital massage — as a partnered practice.

It’s a devotional act to slow down and meet the genitals as sacred, alive and worthy of care.
Through guided practice, clear boundaries and conscious touch, we explore genital massage not as performance or goal, but as ritual — a space of presence, choice and deep listening to the body.

Genital massage, as we approach it here, is not a technique-driven experience.
It is an art and a ritual.

To honour your own genitals, or those of another, is a deeply humbling process. It asks us to touch without taking — without needing a response, an outcome, or anything in return. It invites presence rather than performance.

To receive this kind of touch is to soften any fear around how you “should” respond.

To give this kind of touch is to let go of expectations and goal.

It is an invitation to release judgement, drop agendas, and surrender into what is genuinely there beneath the touch. That experience may be pleasurable, healing, nourishing, vulnerable, or unexpectedly revealing. All of it is welcome.

When we allow ourselves to be this open and receptive in the presence of another, we make space for true intimacy and depth of connection.

This work teaches us to let go of the goal. This is not a “happy ending” approach to touch.
It is a devotional act.

The day will include a live demonstration, with clear guidance and instruction offered throughout.
This is education , not voyeurism or exhibitionism.

You’ll explore:

How as a giver you can be fully present.
How as a receiver you can expand your experience.
How to deepen into ritual as a couple.
How to take responsibility for your own pleasure.
How to touch with integrity.
How to actively receive.
Practical communication skills to use during intimacy.
How genital massage goes far beyond the genitals.
Genital touch techniques.
And plenty more

You are invited to attend with a partner of any gender. You do not need to be a couple, but you do need to feel comfortable engaging in intimate, consensual touch together. Someone you trust to hold you in deep vulnerability.

Same-sex couples and pairings are fully supported.

T&Cs:

Please be aware tickets are non-refundable or transferable.

Please refer to the event booking page to remind yourself of the T&Cs.

**If needed on the day, please call/text Jem: ** **07387348355**

Looking forward to being with you all soon,

Much love

Jem

Genital Massage Ritual: A Day of Embodied Touch with Jem Ayres